#9 Directions in heaven
A man was talking to his son, The mood was tense.
The father was convinced that his boy was going in a bad direction.
“Son,” he said, “you need to do a one eighty,” The son knew exactly
what he meant. A full circle is 360 degrees, so a 180 is half a
circle. In effect he knew he was being told that he had to
turn his life around.
This is a little lesson in spiritual geography.
Just as the surface of the earth is divided into various regions and
zones, so there are various areas of spiritual life, some of them
beautiful, and others extremely dangerous. Spiritual growth
involves going through different landscapes of this spiritual world.
Children start out in a kind of paradise - “East in Eden.” As
they grow up they lose something of that innocence and begin
exploring worlds opened up to them through education and experience.
This is like a journey to the South.
When people have a spiritual awakening in their
adult years they might find themselves far from the kind of
spiritual place they want to be in, and so they begin to try to
orient themselves. This spiritual journey often requires a new
direction. They want to know where to look for the source of their
growth. They journey back to the East.
When we talk of “orienting ourselves” we
are using the word for the East (the Orient). As far as the
angels are concerned, the Lord is in the East, like the rising sun,
and so, whate4ver direction they turn, the angels are always facing
East. This is another way of saying that whatever they are
doing, they are always looking to the Lord.
It is useful to stop and ask ourselves how we
feel about where we are spiritually. What is our spiritual geography
like? Where should we turn if we want to find a better
spiritual place?
“In heaven the East is what determines all the
quarters. The East is where the Lord is seen as a Sun because
all origin of life is from Him as a Sun. Moreover to the extent that
angels receive heat and light or love and intelligence from Him, the
Lord is said to arise upon them. For the same reason, in the
Word the Lord is said to be the East.” Heaven and Hell #141
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#10 Time and Space in Heaven
Wouldn’t it be nice if we did not have to live
with the limitations of space and time! Sometimes it seems as
if these are two big enemies. How often do we hear people say:
“There are not enough hours in the day,” “I just haven’t got time,”
and even, “I have to much time, it’s driving me crazy.” And then
there are all the complaints about space - “My children live too far
away,” “I’m not able to be with you physically, but I am certainly
there in spirit.”
What would life be like without these
limitations? The answer is simple. It would be heaven!
When people pass from this world to the next, they leave behind all
concerns about these external things. There are no clocks or
calendars in heaven. This does not mean that eternal life is always
the same. It is constantly changing. It has a flow and a
direction to it, the way time does in this world, but it is not
measure. The angels simply go through the various phases of their
life corresponding to our morning afternoon and evening, without
having to be told by the clock what to do and when. Imagine what
your life would be like if you just finished whatever you were doing
and then went on to do the next thing, not because THE CLOCK told
you to, but because you were ready. This is what heaven is
like. Many people enjoy retirement because it has a similar
quality. It is interesting how our vacation time and our time
off, begin to imitate the time of heaven, which is just a natural
flow from one state of mind to another, and one activity to another
And what about space? Here we find even
greater rewards. On earth we can be physically separated from
those we care about, but after death we are always with the people
we love. Just as they are near to us in heart, so we seem them as
being near to us in fact. If we think of someone, they are
instantly present. Modern technology helps us to come a little
closer to this. We can call or e-mail someone, and get a reply in a
matter of seconds. We can fly around the world in a few days.
As we grow spiritually, we learn how to honor
the fact that our spirit, even as we live in this world, operates
beyond the time-space framework. And it is interesting to note that
many human inventions are designed to make the world more like the
spiritual world by overcoming, at least to some extent, the
limitations of space and time.
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#11 How things appear in
heaven
Heaven is a state of mind, but it looks like a
place. There are trees, flowers, fields, streams, mountains,
sky, sun, moon and stars. There are homes, and the homes have
walls with furniture and works of art. In short, the spiritual
world looks a lot like the natural world. And so what is the
difference between the two?
The main difference is that the things seen in
heaven are the result of the inner states of the Angels. Their
homes are a reflection of their loves and thoughts. The
scenery around them expresses the quality of their inner world.
We do not often experience this perfect harmony
with our environment in the natural world. There are times
when our spirits are bright, and the weather is dull and dreary.
At other times the weather is cheerful, but we are not.
Beautiful things can happen in very ordinary surroundings in this
world, and ugliness can exist inside a person whose external
possessions are beautiful. This lack of harmony can give this
planet an unreal feeling at times. That could not happen in
heaven, where the things around the angels correspond perfectly with
the thoughts and feelings within them.
The faces of angels are a perfect expression of
their inner selves. The decorations in their homes all tell a
story about the quality of their wisdom and love. All of this
makes the spiritual world feel more real to the angels than our
natural world feels to us.
Of course we can strive to make our external
world correspond to the world inside of us. We can work to
make our life on earth approximate the life of heaven. We
begin by striving for unselfish love of others, inner harmony and
peace. And then we do what we can to express those spiritual
qualities in the world around us.
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#12 The Form of heaven
The human brain has been described as the most
highly organized substance in the universe. It contains more
cells than there are people in the world, each of them linked in
such a way as to enable them to communicate with each other.
Through the brain stem, these cells are connected to all parts of
the body. The heart also connects with different parts of the
body through its network of blood vessels. This marvelous
order enables the body with all of its different parts and organs,
to function as a single unit.
It is similar with heaven. The angels are
interconnected. This enables an angel to make a contribution
to the welfare of the whole of heaven, and to benefit from the gifts
of all the other angels. In a remarkable way, each angel is
like a focal point for all of the love and inspiration of all other
angels. Heaven is certainly marvelously constructed.
We have our own systems in this world, and they
become more complex with every passing year. I can remember
visiting a telephone exchange office about fifty years ago, and
being told that every phone in the country could have a direct
connection to any other phone in the country through switchboards.
The system did not work overseas except through a clumsy and far
from perfect radio system. Now the telephone system is not
only more complex, but we have the whole Internet system enabling a
person with a home computer and a telephone connection to send
messages over the world wide web.
These technological systems enable us to keep in
touch with people in this world. On an emotional and spiritual
level, our minds and hearts are part of the heavenly communication
system made possible by the marvelous form of heaven. We can
be in touch with the whole range of heaven because of the spiritual
connections we have with that higher plane of existence. And
without these connections, we simply could not function. (See
Heaven and Hell #200-212)
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#13 Worship in heaven
For people who know the Lord and adore Him in
their hearts, every day is a day of worship. They lift up
their minds in prayer as they greet each new day. Before they
go to sleep, they close the day with a prayer. When facing
difficulties they turn to God. When joyful about good news,
they are grateful. They see all of the different aspects of
the day as part of their life of worship. They accept their
responsibilities as an expression of devotion to God and to others.
In their caring for other people, they show how much they care about
God. All of the elements of worship are in their day to day
interactions with other people - joy, gratitude, humility, a
willingness to learn and a desire to serve.
When worship is a part of daily life, coming
together with others in a formal worship service, has special
meaning and depth. It feels like a privilege, and not at all
like an obligation, and is more like recreation than work.
This is why there is worship in heaven. In a sense, every day
in heaven is a day of worship, because worship is the whole of the
life of angels. Having an attitude of reverence to every
aspect of life, their spirts soar when they hear the message: “Today
is the Sabbath.” They love to continue to learn from the
depths of the Word, and they enjoy doing so with their deeply loved
friends.
What a difference it makes to our earthly life
when we experience this ongoing worship during the week, and how
wonderful it is to have a worship service to begin a new week.
Thank You Lord. (See Heaven and Hell #221-227)
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#14 The Power of the Angels
Occasionally I hear people expressing concern
about the state of the world, and the negative forces that seem, at
times, to be overwhelming. Fortunately, evil does not really
have any power. The only power in the universe is the power of
God, which is also the power of good.
The Hebrew word for God is a !- (El), a word
which also means strong, mighty, a mighty one, power. Since
angels are messengers of God, they also have power. The power
of God through angels affects every moment of our life, and is an
important factor in our spiritual protection.
Jesus talks about the “power of darkness” (Luke
22:53) but this power is very limited. In a sense you could
say that darkness has no power at all. If you have a box with
a partition in the middle, one side of the partition being full of
light and the other side full of darkness, what happens when the
partition is removed? The light simply fills both sections.
The darkness has no power to extinguish the light. Why then
should the Bible talk about “the power of darkness?” Isn’t it
because people are deceived into ascribing power to the darkness, a
power that does not really exist? For example, lies only
have power when people believe them to be true! The power is
in the light of truth. That is why it says in John, the “the
light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend
it.” (John 1:5)
This is speaking of the power of light, or the
power of truth. What about the power of love? In a sense you
could say that it is the only power in the universe. The
angels have this power in great abundance for the simple reason that
they are happy to acknowledge the Lord God as the real source of the
love that fills their hearts.
All of the various machines and appliances in
our life run because of an influx of power. When that power is
cut off, as in a power failure, the machines are useless. On a
spiritual level if the power of love were ever removed from our
lives, we would become as limp as rags. We can be grateful for
the way in which this spiritual power constantly renews itself.
Like energy, which cannot be destroyed but only changes its form,
the power of love is a constant that in various ways supports our
being and our life. (See Heaven and Hell #228-233)
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#15 Angelic Communication
As I write this I am preparing for a trip to
Sweden. I am studying a few Swedish phrases to add to the enjoyment
of my trip. It is not my intention to learn to speak it well.
I have tried that with French and Dutch, and never got to the point
where I was fluent. It is extremely difficult to learn another
language. It is relatively easy to pick up a few words and
phrases, and I am sure that it will add a richness to the experience
of traveling in Sweden.
How sad it is that we are so divided on this
natural plane by so many different languages. This is one of
the problems that is solved by death. After we die we lose nothing
that belongs to us as human beings, but we do lose our earthly
languages. They are of no use to us in the spiritual world
where there is a different language - one that is learned
spontaneously and without effort, one that is universal. It is
the language of thought. In a sense you could say that we
already know this language. All we have to do is think, and our
minds are speaking this language.
Of course language requires feelings as well.
Swedenborg found that the angelic language is a perfect expression
of both the feelings and the thoughts of the speakers. It
involves facial expressions, inflections, tones as well as words.
It is full of wisdom since it comes from their deepest thoughts, and
it is full of love because it always comes from the heart.
There are stories in the Bible of angels
speaking to people on earth. There is never a need for
an interpreter, since the angel communicates by ideas which are
translated in the mind of the listeners into their own language.
It sounds to the human as if the angel is speaking Hebrew, or
Swedish, or whatever their own language might be. It would be
more accurate to say that the angels are sharing ideas which come
into the listeners’ awareness in the human languages that they know.
(See Heaven and Hell #234-257)
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#16
Angelic writing
Anyone who has attempted to write a book knows
that it requires a special kind of effort to put things in writing,
quite different from the process of speaking. By putting
something in writing, the author provides a gift for the world.
In some cases the books continue to enrich people’s lives over
hundreds and even thousands of years. For many people books
are among life’s greatest treasurers.
I was visiting a friend recently and I couldn’t
help noticing the great quantity of books in his home. There
were bookcases everywhere, crammed with books on a wide variety of
subjects, like languages ancient and modern, history, and science.
There were dictionaries, encyclopedias, and all kinds of reference
works. I could have spent weeks just browsing through those
fascinating tomes.
Since when we die we take with us everything
that is special to us, it follows that our love of reading will
still be with us in the next life. Do the angels have bookcases?
Are their homes full of reading matter? It would certainly
seem so.
There are stories in the Word where a person on
earth sees into heaven. The prophet Ezekiel had a vision of
heaven, and in that vision he saw an angel with the scroll of a
book, written on both sides. (Ezekiel 2:9,10)
Ezekiel was commanded to eat the book. He found that it was
sweet in his mouth. The same thing happened to John on the
Isle of Patmos. He writes about taking a book from an angel,
eating it, and finding it sweet in his mouth but bitter in his
stomach. (Revelation 10:9,10)
The main reason for writing in heaven, is so
that the Word of God can exist there - the Bible. When angels
read the Bible do they see the same stories that we see when we read
it? Yes, but from a totally different point of view, not as
earthly stories, but as expressions of the infinite love and wisdom
of God. (See Heaven and Hell #258-264)
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#17
Angelic wisdom
One of the great tasks in life is to seek for
wisdom. The process begins early in life, and continues
forever!
I can remember being in situations where older
and wiser people than myself were having a discussion. They
were tossing ideas back and forth like bean bags. I was
impressed by these people. In addition, I seemed to myself to
become wiser just by being in the discussion. It was as if
their brilliance illuminated me and made me a little smarter than I
was.
Wisdom is spiritual light. When we think
of the light of heaven shining so much brighter than light in this
world, we can get some idea of the wisdom of the angels. They
live in a light that is to some extent inaccessible to us on earth.
There are five main ingredients.
1. Because of their integrity, the higher
levels of their minds are open and transparent. The angels do
not put any effort into trying to deceive, or trying to impress one
another.
2. They have so much light because of the
warmth of their love. Just as in this world, heat brings
light, so in heaven the love of the angels makes them wise.
3. They are without ego. They love
truth because it is true, and not for any credit to themselves or
personal gain.
4. They openly and gladly share their
wisdom with others. This means that when an angel joins a
group of other angels, he or she immediately shares the ideas and
perceptions of all the others. In this case the whole is
greater than the sum of its parts. Through this sharing, each
angel becomes wiser.
5. They long for truth the way a starving
person hungers for food. Because of this hunger they continue
growing in wisdom forever.
(See Heaven and Hell #265-275)
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#18 Angelic innocence
There is a wonderful scene in the movie, Star
Wars where Luke first meets Yoda. He was looking for a powerful and
wise being, and thought, at first, that Yoda was just a child.
He found that Yoda was incredibly ancient, wise and strong. There is
a similar encounter in the movie, E.T. where an alien being seems to
be very young and ineffective but proves to be very different.
Both speak a profound truth about the angels of heaven, namely, that
they are completely innocent and exceptionally wise.
With little children, innocence comes from the
fact that they know very little and have so little power. This makes
them dependent on their parents. As they grow, they be come more
independent and less innocent.
Jesus said that we have to have the innocence of
little children to enter the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 10:14,15).
As people age, they sem to return to this quality of childhood, but
with the added element of wisdom.
So what is the innocence of heaven like? The
angels do not have an exaggerated idea of their own importance, but
attribute what is good to the Lord. They know how dangerous it is to
be led by self-will and prefer to be led by God. They love goodness
and delight in the truth. They are content with their lot, and are
not the least bit worried about the future. They do not act
deceitfully with others, or try to use cunning to get their own way.
When they hear something true they immediately apply it to their
lives. They know that their knowledge, vast as it is compared to our
own, is nothing. The little that they know is like a drop of water
compared to the whole ocean.
This innocence is the essence of the goodness of
heaven. It is also the heart of the marriage relationship,
which is why partners who deeply love each other are playful, almost
like little children.
Innocence is a willingness to be led by the
Lord. To become innocent is to become like an angel. To be
innocent is to be in heaven. (See Heaven and Hell #276-283)
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#19
Peace in Heaven
I was once visiting an older woman, living alone
in the remote mountains of Wales. She had something about her that
was truly amazing - a kind of contentment. This did not seem to come
from her circumstances. She had her share of challenges. It
was more something that came from deep inside. This inner quality
brought a glow to everything in her life. I had a strong
feeling that she had found the secret of happiness. She was at
peace.
Innocence and peace are the deepest aspects of
heaven. Innocence is the source of all the goodness of heaven
and peace is the source of joy.
People who return from a near death experience
sometimes describe having had a most peaceful and delightful time,
so much so that they were extremely reluctant to return to their
usual state in this world. Some manage to hold on to that inner
peace when they do return and it changes the whole quality of their
life.
Some look for peace in external ways - as if it
could come from the absence of strive, or from overcoming problems.
But peace is the love of God touching us on the deepest level of our
being, which means that peace essentially is a divine quality. The
Creator of the universe is at peace, and those who connect with the
Creator through love, experience that peace. Although I cannot
judge, it seems that that was what I sensed with the woman in
Wales.
So long as we live on this natural plane, it is
inevitable that we are tossed about in various ways, and we long for
peace. The nearest we might get is contentment in God. To work
toward achieving greater peace, we can work on our connection with
the Prince of Peace. When we feel the joy of God in our hearts, we
are experiencing something of that peace of heaven, peace that
passes all understanding, peace that is the ultimate goal of all
human striving. (See Heaven and Hell #284-290)
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#20 The
Connection between Heaven and Earth
A person was hiking alone in the mountains, and
stopped to rest. For a moment she felt quite alone, and began
thinking how small she was in a remote area of this tiny planet, and
its medium sized sun, average galaxy, all in an unimaginably large
universe. But the feeling soon passed as she stopped to think
of her connections with that other world - the more real world of
the spirit. She knew that God was directly present with her as
her very life. She also knew that the angels of God were
always present - not seen, but sensed in a feeling of peace and
contentment.
Then she began to have doubts and fears.
Her mind was chilled by anxieties that robbed her of her peace.
At first she was alarmed by this. It seemed to wipe away all
of the good feelings of the previous state. But then she
remembered that we also have devils with us. We do not see
them, but we can tell that they are present by the anxiety we feel,
and the dark and negative thinking they bring. Remembering
this was very helpful. She found that she could tell those evil
spirits to get behind her, as she raised her mind to heavenly
thoughts and feelings.
After some time of vacillation between the
positive and the negative, she remembered another important
principle. The Lord and heaven, communicate with us through
the Word. So she took out her Bible, and began to read: “God
is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
Therefore we will not fear even though the earth be removed, and
though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea.”
(Psalm 46:1,2) This reading brought an immediate change
of mood. She felt connected to heaven again.
Yes, we live in a physical world, and we are
connected with the spiritual one. There are angels present
with us at all times, and the Lord, God, never leaves us. We can
strengthen that connection by reading the Word, whose stories seem
to be concerned about events in the world, but whose deeper meanings
connect with heaven itself. (See Heaven and Hell #291-310)
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#21 Heaven and
Hell are from the Human race
What are angels, and where do they come from?
For years there has been a belief that, before God created the
world, He created angels, and that human beings are a totally
separate race. In contrast to that, we often hear people talk
about a loved one in terms that suggest that having died, the
loved-one is now an angel.
So who are angels? Swedenborg’s long
experiences of the spiritual realm taught him a very simple
principle. All angels began life as people on this or some
other planet. Angels are not a separate creation of God, but
people just like the ones we know on earth. Popular shows like
“Touched by an Angel,” support this idea. The angels in the
show look so much like ordinary people that through most of each
episode they are thought to be humans. And so the general
impression, that good people become angels after death, proves to be
the truth! The point is that each one of us is
intended to become an angel after we die.
Many people believe this instinctively. Many
also have a strong sense that people they know in this world have
angelic qualities - “you are such an angel.” Once again, the
general impression proves to be the truth. This is the
training ground for us to begin to learn what angelic life is like.
There are two main qualifications: a love of God, and a love of
other people. When we act lovingly, and speak wisely, we are
all angels, messengers of God. (See Heaven and Hell #311-317)
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#22
The Gentiles
There are many words used by Christians to
describe non-Christians. Most of them have come to have a
strongly negative connotation. Looking up the root meanings in
“the Concise Etymological Dictionary of the English Language” we
find some of the reasons for this negativity.
ALIEN - Someone “other than” us.
BARBARIAN - A “stammerer,” someone whose language sounds to us like
babble.
FOREIGN - “Out of doors,” someone not within our little world
GENTILE - “Belonging to the same Clan or Tribe.” Related to the
word “Genteel!”
HEATHEN - “Wild.”
INFIDEL - A person “without faith.”
PAGAN - A “villager or person who lives in the country,” (people
who are the slowest to accept new ideas.)
PRIMITIVE - The “first people, the earliest ones.”
SAVAGE - “Belonging to the forest.”
STRANGE - “Someone on the outside” (compare the word: extraneous from
which our word stranger comes.)
I guess we are all a little wary of “strangers”
but in the Christian world this fear has turned into the doctrine
that only Christians can be saved. Many of us have had the
experience of meeting someone from a totally different culture and
religious background only to find them in some ways more spiritual
than the Christians we have known!
Isn’t it strange that not only do many
Christians deny the possibility of heaven to pagans, but they even
deny it to other branches of Christianity and, more sadly, even to
members of their own faith community, as in the old adage: “No one
is really Christian but me and thee . . . and sometimes I wonder
about thee!”
The reality is that the mercy of the Lord is far
greater than our own, that in His sight everyone on the planet has
been born for heaven, and that even though there are many false
concepts in the seemingly endless forms that religion takes, to get
into heaven you need only two:
1. A belief in God - or at least a belief in something higher
than yourself, and . . .
2. A desire to live a good life according to what you
believe.
Any deficit in knowledge can easily be made up
for in the other life.
(See Heaven and Hell #318-328)
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#23 Little Children in
Heaven
One of the saddest of all human experiences is
the death of little children. We cannot believe that a
merciful God would let one of these little ones perish. If we
could see the other side of their transition we would not be so
horrified. We would notice angels tenderly watching over them,
angel mothers welcoming them. We would see their bright,
innocent eyes full of wonder as they explore their new world.
We would enjoy watching them learning in a spontaneous and
imaginative way all of the things they need to know. We would
see them dancing through the meadows, with garlands of flowers and
beauty all around. We would see their new families as they are
adopted into angelic foster homes, with perfect care to their every
need.
It would be exciting to watch them learn to
walk, speak and read without effort. It would be thrilling to
see the eagerness with which they drink in the teachings of the
Word. We would enjoy being with them as they are taught by
pageants and plays, each one designed to communicate some important
truth and some deep feeling.
We would watch them grow “physically” as they
grew in wisdom and love, their growing bodies perfectly reflecting
their spiritual growth. We would eventually see them attain
young womanhood and young manhood, the age that they would stay at
forever.
We might even see them, pairing off, finding
themselves led by the Lord to a perfect married partner, with whom
they would then live to eternity.
Would we see the tantrums and selfishness that
children on earth experience? Yes - at least to some extent,
and this because it is important for them to know the difference
between their hereditary instincts and their spiritual life.
And what of non-Christian children? Would
they be there? Yes indeed. A merciful God would not
exclude a child from heaven simply because the parents were not
Christians. God does not require the external ceremony of
baptism as a gateway to heaven, but the spiritual process which it
represents. In short, if we saw these children, we might still feel
sad at our own loss, but would rejoice at their gain. (See
Heaven and Hell #329-345)
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#24 The Wise and the Simple
In this world of IQ testing, SAT scores and
numerous other measurements of intelligence most of us can’t help
feeling rather dull. I have been in situations where the
conversation was so far above my head that I was struggling for air.
Not normally shy, I found that I did not dare to open my mouth for
fear of sounding stupid.
Reading about the wisdom of angels, the question
naturally arises, is that situation likely to happen in heaven?
Angels are so much wiser than we are.
And then I remember times when I have been
talking with a farmer, leaning over the back fence, feeling totally
comfortable, not feeling stupid at all, and at the same time having
a wonderful sense that I was in the presence of real wisdom. I
have had the same experience talking with a grandmother whose
education did not reach past High School, but whose words were very
profound.
What is it that produces wisdom? It is
certainly not intelligence. There are very intelligent people
who are not wise at all. It is not from education. There
are many highly educated people who lack common sense. Wisdom
comes from a love of truth, not for glory, but just because it is
true. There are people who have this delight in truth that
makes them seekers. They are not content with sham, and are
deeply affected and delighted with truth when they find it.
They are not interested in accumulating
knowledge. What they learn they translate directly into their
lives. They do not understand what it is to learn just for the
sake of learning. To them truth is a support for love and
living a good life. This is what the wisdom of angels is
like.
We can increase our capacity for wisdom by
getting in touch with our own love of truth, and by looking
especially for those ideas that will make us better citizens of this
world and the next. This is how we can approach the wisdom of
the angels.
“The human mind is like soil. Its quality
is according to the way it is cultivated.” Heaven and Hell
#356
(See Heaven and Hell #346-356)
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#25 The Rich and the
Poor in Heaven
Is having material wealth good or bad for our
spiritual state? Jesus said: “It is hard for a rich person to
enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 19:23) Some
Christians have deliberately made themselves poor because of this
saying. But most of us live with the idea that material wealth
is a good thing (why else would there be such a fervor over
Lotteries?). The fact is that Jesus was talking about being
poor “in spirit” (Matthew 5:3). He was talking about
humility.
Are worldly riches curses or blessings?
There is a very simple answer. If your eternal lot is heaven,
then whatever wealth or poverty you had in this world must have been
all right.
“Heaven is for all who live a life of faith and
love, whether rich or poor. . . . The rich enter heaven just as
easily as the poor. People are not shut out of heaven on
account of their wealth, nor received into heaven on account of
their poverty.” (Heaven and Hell #357)
We have been born into this world, and need to
come to terms with it. It is perfectly all right to seek to be
financially successful, provided it is not achieved by fraud or
deceit. We are allowed to enjoy the good things of life
provided we do not make them more important than spiritual things.
As far as our own spiritual life is concerned,
so long as we watch out for greed and materialism, it is good for us
to be successful. And as far as our judgments of others are
concerned, we need to be careful not to make judgments about
people’s spiritual state on the basis of how much money they have,
whether it is great or small. Money itself is totally neutral.
By our handling of money we can make it good or evil.
Our spiritual state is more important than our
bank account and the degree of usefulness to others is more
important than our salary. It is a matter of keeping things in
balance. (See Heaven and Hell #357-365)
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#26 Marriages in Heaven
I love helping couples prepare for their
wedding. For many of them it is the most significant event of
their entire life. We talk about various aspects of marriage,
especially the fact that it is a partnership of people who are equal
and different.
Naturally we think of love as being the most
important ingredient, but I like to point out that love is not a
feeling. It lies deeper than our feelings and gives rise to
them. Love is a kind of inner consent that says “YES” to this
other person, and says “YES” to working with that person to create a
lifelong bond of friendship, cooperation, respect and love.
Love is a commitment, and a decision.
Many couples agree that falling in love was a
spiritual event for them. And many of them select passages for
their wedding service that talk about the eternity of marriage.
This is of special interest considering that many of them belong to
churches that do not believe in the eternity of marriage. It
seems that love creates its own perception and its own wisdom.
The feeling of love is “this is forever.”
There is a song from “West Side Story” that some
couples choose to have sung at their wedding. It is called
“One hand, one heart” and includes the refrain: “Only death will
part us now.” Just as I am beginning to feel uncomfortable
about this refrain it shifts, and on the last verse says: “Even
death won’t part us now.”
There is marriage after death. It is
between one man and one woman - possibly people who had been married
to each other on earth, but only if they truly loved each other on a
spiritual level. The force that binds them together is the
force of the divine love that joins them into a oneness that is full
of tenderness and delight.
I do believe that people who marry for love,
marry in the hope that their love will last, not just for a few
years on earth, but forever.
(See Heaven and Hell #366-386)
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#27 The jobs of the Angels
Which would you rather have, eternal idleness,
or ongoing useful activity? Swedenborg found that the joy of
heaven is the satisfaction that comes from doing something useful
for yourself or for others. He noted that just as every organ
and cell in the body has to make a contribution to the welfare of
the whole system, so every angel, and every community of angels is
involved in usefulness,. Indeed, this usefulness is the real
source of heavenly joy and happiness! The angels have jobs,
and they love their work.
But what do they do? We know that there
are guardian angels. There are angels who are with people as
they die, and other angels that help them as they wake up in the
spiritual world. Some angels have the work of welcoming people
who died in their infancy and raising them in heaven. Others
are sent to protect people on earth from harm.
But the majority of the jobs of the angels would
be a total mystery to us. They have a thousand times as many
occupations available to them as we do on earth, and most of them
are beyond our present understanding. To get some idea of
this, imagine visiting a hunter-gatherer community. The
community is self-contained, and the needs of everyone are provided
for, but the jobs are very limited. Some are employed in
making tools, others in finding game, some in preparing food,
building shelter, possibly making utensils, clothing and fabrics,
and so on. It would not take you long to list all of the jobs
open in such a community. You would also find that each
individual might have several different things to do to help the
group survive. Could you explain to them the various jobs in
our modern cities? How many of them do you understand
yourself?
Project your imagination into the future of life
on this planet. If you could be transported to the year 3000
A.D., and look at the jobs people would be doing more than a
thousand years from now, how many of their jobs could you
understand?
One more leap of imagination takes you to the
spiritual world, to heaven and the uses of the angels. They
are far more numerous than jobs on earth, far more satisfying
(because each person does what he or she loves to do), and far more
valuable. The kingdom of heaven is a kingdom of useful
activities, and it is through these activities that the angels find
their deepest satisfactions.
(See Heaven and Hell #387-394)
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#28 Angelic Happiness
A person was searching for the truth. On
hearing that there was a wise Guru sitting on a mountain, he made
the arduous journey up the mountain so that he could put a burning
question: “What is the purpose of life?”
Without a moment’s hesitation, the Guru said:
“To be happy.”
The man looked very puzzled and a little
disappointed at the answer. “Does this mean that I can do
whatever I like?”
The Guru replied, “The purpose of life is to
have the deepest satisfaction and the greatest happiness. You
probably have no idea how to be really happy. Try to find
happiness. If you need to learn more, you can always come back
and ask again.”
The man descended the mountain feeling relieved.
He thought that his own happiness was the most important thing in
the world. He got a job, but only went to work when it made
him feel good. He got into a relationship, but thought only
about his own happiness, taking no interest in the happiness of the
other person. After years of self-indulgence and deep
disappointment, he decided that he needed to talk to the Guru again.
So he made the journey back up the mountain.
“What is the purpose of life?” he asked again,
as if he had never asked the question before.
“To be happy” said the Guru. “I told you
that years ago.”
“But it doesn’t work. I tried it. I
lost my job and my friends and didn’t have that much fun.”
“I told you that you did not know how to be
happy. How do you feel about your life so far?”
“It has been miserable.”
“Do you feel that misery is the purpose of
life?”
“No, something is wrong.”
“Then you need to learn how to be happy. I
will give you a few clues. You will never be truly happy if
you live only for yourself, or simply indulge your cravings.
To be happy you have to find out some way of giving happiness to
others, and being in meaningful and loving relationships with
others. When you learn that you will know what heaven is,
because you will know what heavenly joy is. Whether you say
heaven or heavenly joy it amounts to the same thing. What
would heaven be like if it were not joyful?”
“Why does it have to be so complicated?’
“It is not really complicated at all, but for
some reason, many people have great difficulty finding real
happiness. Please do not settle for some passing pleasure.
Eternal happiness is so much better than that.”
The man went down the mountain, continued his
life in search of true happiness and eventually died. In
heaven he happened to meet the Guru.
“Well,” said the Guru, “what do you think now?”
“I have never known such bliss. This
happiness far surpasses any idea of joy I had before, and all the
struggles to achieve it were completely worthwhile. This
really is the purpose of life!”
(See Heaven and Hell #395-414)
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#29 The immensity of heaven.
A parent was having one of those deep
conversations with a ten year old child.
“I want to die,” says the child.
“Why, are you feeling depressed?”
“No, I’m feeling great, but I think I’d better
die before it is too late.”
“Too late for what?”
“You might think this is stupid, but I want to
die before heaven gets filled up.”
“That would be sad, but what makes you think
heaven is getting filled up?”
“We learned in school that the world population
is growing, and even now millions of people die every year.
They talk about the world getting overpopulated, well, what about
heaven?”
“The fear about overpopulation is because the
earth has limited resources. People don’t take up much room in
this world. In fact you could put the whole population of the world
in the Tucson valley. Now since angels don’t need physical
food and don’t use up natural resources, there isn’t the same
problem. Besides, angels don’t take up any room at all, they
are spiritual, not physical. They don’t take up space.
The Lord’s heart is large enough to love everyone, from all places
in the universe, over all time, so heaven will never be full.
So please don’t be in a hurry to get to heaven. There is no
rush. And there is plenty for you to do in this world before
you go on to the next one. You are so precious in this world,
that you should stay here as long as you can, leaving it to the Lord
to decide when to call you to heaven. ” (See Heaven and Hell
#415-420)
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#30 Between Heaven and Hell
Uncle Fred died. The family was gathered for the
resurrection service, and people were saying how wonderful it was
that Uncle Fred was now an angel in heaven. Some people looked
a little bit askance. They knew too much about Uncle Fred to
think that all he had to do was to die and go to heaven. It is
not that he was such a bad man either. Like most of us he was
a mixture - a little of this, and a little of that. You
couldn’t really call him an angel, and you wouldn’t think of
calling him a devil. He was “between heaven and hell.”
Swedenborg discovered that very few people are
totally ready for heaven or hell when they die. They have work
to do. It is reassuring to think that Uncle Fred will have
time to continue his spiritual journey after death, and that we will
all have time to go through whatever process we need to experience
in order to have an undivided mind.
In many ways our life in this world is “between
heaven and hell.” We have our good moments. We know the
joy of really caring for other people, and have had times of genuine
peace. We have also known the frustration of dealing with our
own cravings, our weaknesses and our selfishness. We have
already begun the process of sorting out our spiritual values, and
finding our direction. The more work we do on this as we live
our life on earth, the more ready we will be for the heaven the Lord
has provided for us after death. (See Heaven and Hell #421-431)
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#31 Every person is a Spirit
Two people were taking a stroll through a
beautiful city park. They were very intent on their
conversation. They walked alongside the lake, under the great
trees, over the bridges, by the fields, talking as they went.
After a couple of hours one of them noticed that the sun was
setting. They stopped, looked at each other, and wondered
where they were. They had no idea how far they had walked or
how long. It was as if their bodies had been moving through
physical space and time while their minds and hearts were on their
own journey, so interesting that it blocked out an awareness of the
other.
This is a reminder that we are spiritual beings.
We have a physical life, and to some extent we live in a world of
space and time, but the real world we inhabit consists of feelings
and thoughts. Our mind (or spirit) even has its own sense of
time, which explains why we can feel that an hour passes as quickly
as a minute, and minutes can drag on like hours.
Our internal world is really a spiritual world.
It is not material. It has no weight, and no time-space
dimension. As someone said, we are not physical beings with a
spiritual life, we are spiritual beings with a physical life.
This is good news because it means that our real life, the life that
we truly call our own, does not depend on time and space, and so can
survive death!
Those two people walking in the park were
communicating on a spiritual level, and their bodies were like
machines going through their normal activities. If through
some tragic accident they were to be killed simultaneously, they
would probably continue walking and talking, scarcely aware that
anything had happened!
We are on this earthly plane just for a time, to
learn lessons that will stay with us forever. (See Heaven and Hell
#432-444)
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#32 What it is like to die
A woman was talking about her own death.
“I’m not afraid of being dead. I know that we must all die,
and I know that God has a place for me in heaven.”
“Well what are you afraid of?” came the
response.
“I’m afraid of the process of dying. I see
these people who lose their memory, can’t walk anymore, have great
pain, - the process seems to be horrible. That is what I am
afraid of.”
About twenty years later the woman died.
She was almost 90 years old, and still living alone without
assistance. Her mind was alert, and she had no significant
pain. She stood up to go and take a nap, an aneurism burst,
and within minutes she was gone. What was it like for her to
die? It seemed as if it was a pleasant process!
Many people who have near death experiences
report going through a time of great peace and inner calm, even
those whose bodies have been writhing in agony. The love and
beauty that surround them in this near death experience are so great
that they hesitate to return to this world. Evidently dying is
very enjoyable.
Swedenborg was permitted to go through the
process as if he was dying, so that he could describe it in some
detail. He found that the connection between body and spirit
was related to the motions of the heart and lungs, and that when
those motions ceased, the spirit was gently withdrawn from the body,
and seemed to be lifted up. He noticed that there were
celestial angels present with him, sitting silently, and holding his
mind in thoughts of eternal life. At this time he was soothed
by a most beautiful fragrance. After a while these celestial angels
withdrew, and spiritual angels were present, eventually giving him
the use of sight by rolling something like a veil from his eyes.
At first the light was a dim blue color. When the light
increased to the point where he could see again, he noticed these
angels, and they told him that he was a spirit - a person living in
the spiritual world.
In his case, of course, he had not actually
died, but went through the process so that he could tell us about
it. What he reported fits well into the near death experience
reported by so many. The main point is that the transition
between the two world is very pleasant, a very sweet journey to
continuing life. (See Heaven and Hell #445-452)
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#33 After
death we are in a perfect human form.
When we look at another human being, do we just
see a physical object? Are we not seeing an expression of
feelings and thoughts, purpose and meaning? Are we not seeing
something spiritual?
Looking into a person’s eyes is like looking
into their soul. The eyes communicate so many things that are
well beyond the merely physical level. We see feelings,
determination and intelligence and these are all spiritual
qualities. The whole face is an index of the mind, each part
communicating something about the person. The physical senses
of sight, hearing, taste, touch and smell all have a spiritual
counterpart.
So many parts of the human body have
become symbols for parts of the spirit - and so we have expressions
like: a warm heart, being clear sighted, being deaf to what others
say, not having much backbone, not being able to stomach something,
being thick skinned, being able to stand on our own two feet, and so
on.
Swedenborg found that when people die they cast
off the physical body, but then appear in a body in the spiritual
world! This body looks physical, but it is spiritual and obeys
spiritual laws. The body we seem to have in dreams is
something like this. But the spiritual body we have after
death is much more real than anything we experience in dreams.
Its reality comes from the fact that it expresses who we really are.
We need not worry that after death we will be like wisps of smoke -
insubstantial beings. We will have a body that feels to us
just as solid and real as our physical body does on earth.
Unlike the physical body, it grows stronger, more vibrant and
younger over time, and it never dies. (See Heaven and Hell #453-460)
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#34 The memory after death
A woman was telling her friend about her life,
and the friend, deeply moved by the story, said: “You ought to write
a book.”
In a way she was writing a book - it is called
the Book of Life, and it is inscribed on the pages of our memory.
We all have such a book. And it is written in indelible ink!
There are times, of course, when we would like to erase a page or
two, but, in computer terms, this is a read-only file. If we
could change our memory, we would be in danger of losing the good
memories along with the bad. But what are the bad memories?
Often they involve events that have been some of our greatest
teachers. I have heard people describe horrendous chapters in
their book of life, and then say, “and I wouldn’t change it.”
Why not? Because it was part of their story, and contributed
to their life in a significant way.
As we age, our memory can become less reliable.
This might indicate that after death we would have no memory at all,
but the fact is that although we lose our material possessions when
we die, and though we lose our physical bodies, we do not lose our
memories.
Does this mean that we will forever know our
telephone number, social security number, address and a thousand
details that have no use after death? The external facts are
filed away and forgotten. The quality of our life as built up
through our earthly experiences is another level of memory, and this
remains. Will we be haunted by some memories we would rather
forget? No, because in heaven we will live in the present, not in
the past or the future. Any time it is of value to have some
fact of our life brought back, these memories can be accessed.
They are like items in a scrapbook, carefully filed away, and rarely
looked at.
All of this is according to the principle that
nothing of importance is ever wasted, especially that unique story
which is called our book of life. (See Heaven and Hell
#461-469)
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#35 Who are we after death?
A person was talking to her friend: “I know that
I am going to die one day. I feel healthy now, but I know that
our life in this world is limited. I wonder what I will be
like after death.”
“That’s easy” answered the friend. “You
will be the same person that you are now! When you die you
won’t change very much.”
“How can you say that? Maybe I’ll be completely
different.”
“Some things may change, but your dominant
interests and loves will not change. If they did, you wouldn’t
be you any more. You would be someone else. What makes
you unique are the things you care about, especially that main love
in your heart. That is what makes you to be the person you
are, and that does not change after death.”
“Do you mean that I am stuck with my faults and
imperfections?”
“No, it simply means that the strongest love in
your heart is what you really are. After you put off the
earthly body and its imperfections, you can also put off anything
that does not fit with who you really are.”
“So who will I be after I die?”
“You will be yourself, only more so.”
“So what kind of life is waiting for me after I
die?”
“The life that is waiting for you is your life -
the life you are leading here and the life you want to continue to
live once you get there.” (See Heaven and Hell #470-484)
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#36 Our environment after
death
We can’t help wondering what heaven looks like.
The amazing thing is that people in a sense create their own
environment in heaven. What they see around them reflects what
is going on inside them. This is somewhat true in the natural world.
Obviously we don’t create mountains just by thinking about them, or
sunny weather, but we do create sunny moods in our heart.
Remember the cartoon where a particularly gloomy person walks around
with a cloud over his head. Rain is pouring down directly on him and
on no one else. There are people who create that kind of
atmosphere for themselves.
Swedenborg gives some particular instances.
He says that in heaven people who have had a deep love of divine
truth live on mountains with their homes sparkling with precious
stones. Those who love to keep on learning and developing
their minds have homes surrounded by the most beautiful gardens
whose plants are constantly changing. People who attribute
everything to God have homes with lots of crystal and diamonds.
This is why attitudes are so important.
Positive attitudes create a positive environment. Negative
attitudes create negative surroundings. This world is the
place where we learn how to make our heaven beautiful. How do
we do this? We do it by cultivating a love of God, love of
other people, honesty, kindness and respect for truth.
When we work on developing these positive traits we create a
beautiful world inside our own mind and begin work on creating a
lovely and delightful environment for ourselves after death. (See
Heaven and Hell #485-490)
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#37
Our Facades
People were preparing to go to a class reunion.
Some were very concerned about what they would look like and
wondered what the other people would think of them after all those
years. They thought a lot about what clothes to wear for each
function and rehearsed the things they planned to say. They
were fearful of the comparisons they expected as to who looked
better, who had the best jobs, what people thought of their weight
and even the car they were driving. Of course, they were very
interested to see what other people would be wearing and what kind
of car they could afford.
Others were preparing for the same class
reunion. They had not thought of their high school for
years. They were very much wrapped up in life as it is in the
present. They had been doing spiritual work, trying to rise
above critical thoughts, making an effort to live in the present,
looking beyond appearances with other people to think of the deeper
aspects of their life. They did their packing at the last
minute, simply putting in their favorite clothes, hardly even
thinking about whether other people would approve or not. They
thought that there was no point in trying to impress their
classmates. Their purpose in going to the reunion was to be
with friends, share something of the reality of their life and learn
something of the reality of the lives of others.
When people die and go to the spiritual world
there is also a kind of reunion. Shortly after death people
find themselves in a world much like the world they left behind.
They dress in a similar way, put on similar fronts and still attach
importance to external things. This is helpful, enabling them
to make contact with others who may have died years before.
Usually husband and wife meet, even though one may have died decades
before the other. Being in this external state they can
recognize each other and make some kind of contact. Eventually
they want to go a little deeper. That happens when they put
off the facades, and speak what is really on their minds and in
their hearts. Then couples can see if they are meant for each
other or not. Other relationships also change as true feelings
are brought out.
Like class reunions these meetings in the
spiritual world have to begin on a fairly external level.
Later they can move closer to their true life. Our facades are
a temporary way of dealing with others. When the facades are
put off life continues on a deeper level.
(See Heaven and Hell #491-498)
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#38
Our deeper selves
Class reunions can be artificial and
frustrating. They can also be very real and fascinating.
It all depends on how much the people are willing to be transparent
with each other. If a reunion lasts long enough, some
people get tired of the games, throw off the masks and take the risk
of saying just what they mean and doing just what they want to do.
If more and more people were to do this, it could lead to some
interesting changes. They might find that people they had
thought of in high school as nerds were some of the people they were
most drawn to now and those who were popular felt like strangers to
them.
We know how tiring it can be to live behind
masks and how scary it is to be open and honest. But in the
long run, the masks create tremendous distance and loneliness.
People who take the risk of being honest can find true bonds of
understanding and love.
The same is true after death. People
cannot wear masks forever. It is a wise aspect of providence
that when we die we not only put off our material possessions and
our earthly bodies, we also put off many of the pretenses of life
and become more openly the person we are inside.
To some people this shift to openness is very
refreshing. It comes as a great relief to finally be yourself.
To others it might be terrifying. But it must happen to all,
because in the life after death we can no longer fake it. Life
is real and our true nature will come to light. As Jesus said:
“There is nothing covered that will not be revealed, and hidden that
will not be known.” (Matthew 10:26, compare Luke 8:17, Mark
4:22)
We can begin the process of becoming more truly
ourselves even here on earth. It will make our life more
real to others and to ourselves and will bring us closer to the
qualities of heaven. (See Heaven and Hell #499-511)
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